
Nowadays, we find a lot of people around us who love to twist the truth for their own benefits. They don’t mind even if it tarnishes the character of a person or hurts a person to an extent that it can cause mental imbalance. Only thing that these kind of people care, is their own safety and reputation.
Let me tell you a story about two nurses, a staff nurse and a senior nurse. One day, it was noticed during the pharmacy check that some of the drugs of a patient were missing as there was no record of it being given to the patient. It came to the notice of the ward manager that those two members of the staff were working on the day when the patient was discharged. Both of them were summoned. The staff nurse knew that it was her senior who discharged the patient but as it happened a while ago, she could not recollect what really happened. So, she told the ward manager that she really doesn’t remember. The senior staff member blamed the junior one for the incident, even though she knew that it was her mistake. The pharmacist found out later that the medicines were given to the patient but the problem was in the documentation. If only, the senior staff could have told the truth that she forgot to sign, the junior one didn’t have to go through all the tension and insult.
Who do you think that you feel like giving respect, the staff nurse or the senior nurse? Does the position or status of a person is more valuable than the virtues of another? Do you think that you will benefit more with dishonesty and lies and also that those profits are really profits? Do you think that accepting our mistakes can make us less honored?
One of the virtues that I really value is honesty and I really think that if a person can’t be honest then he or she cannot be trusted. I also think that if a person can’t own up their mistakes, then they have a weak character. To lie and to put our fault on someone else’s head is a grave mistake than the one originally committed. It not only causes problems to an innocent person but also takes the chance to correct our mistakes and to make things right. Being honest can be difficult, but in the long run that will give us the true happiness and success in the life.
If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other people.
Virginia Woolf
It’s discouraging to think how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit.
Noël Coward
Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters.
Albert Einstein
Honesty is the first chapter of the book wisdom.
Thomas Jefferson
It takes strength and courage to admit the truth.
Rick Riordan
You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time.
Abraham Lincoln
Please leave your comments on the topic as I would really love to read them.
Great post dear Joyce! I love the story and how you explained.👏👏 It indeed is true, that being honest is difficult but for the success in life, it truly is vital and possible by his grace. 🤝
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Yes… Me too. We all do mistakes. We are humans but we should accept and correct it rather than blaming on someone else or saying lies and adding more on it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic. I really appreciate it.
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Oh yes Joyce – Honesty would always be the best policy. It always pays.
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Yes… It does pays well if we have patience. Thank you for sharing your thoughts here. Much appreciated.
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You will be more hated if they find out the lies and what you did to others. Atleast with honesty, you know you did right and you may have a chance. It may take time but I strongly believe that we should be honest.
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It’s upto you.. it’s your decision.. but if you are hated no matter, isn’t it better to stick to the truth than lies? Atleast, we know that we did right. Just asking..
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Good bye 😊
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Saving your skin and tarnishing your soul is not a good trade off! Honestly 🙂
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Exactly! No one gains with that. Thank you for sharing your thoughts here.
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